My last...?
Recently I was asked when I last had a boyfriend? I paused and replied 'a real one'?Do I include the rebound summer fling of '08, the revisit of an ex in autumn '08, on/off no-commitment-what-so-ever fling with Quiet boy, brief dalliances with Pussy boy, Jason's sexercise et al?As I haven't called any man my boyfriend since last summer I answered as genuinely as I could in one sentence: My last long-term relationship ended in summer 2008 and had one significant although on/off relationship since then.

Planning for the unexpected morning after
British Pregnancy Advisory Service (BPAS), says that “for women who are not in a relationship, the morning-after pill is even safer than the contraceptive pill because it is only an occasional dose of hormones, although obviously it doesn’t protect against STIs”. The BPAS states that “there is no limit” to how many times you can use it.Because time is crucial to the effectiveness of the morning-after pill the Family Planning Association (FPA) believes that women should be encouraged to keep emergency contraception in the same way tha

Heteroflexible
I have always assumed myself as straight, without hesitation. Last night a friend catigorically defined me as heteroflexible.His reasons:- I am so confident in my sexuality, it's likely to overflow (not sure)- My choice of porn is nearly always lesbian (true)- I flirt with girls (true)- He could see me having a FMF threesome (maybe)- My sensuality finds subjects and intellect attractive, not necessarily attributed to men (true)- My one girl crush (true)I obviously had to urban dictionary heteroflexible

For good behaviour
"Unfortunately most men lose their desire to have sex with a girl the longer they are with them..." was a comment left on one of my posts.If this is the case, can there be a 'happy ever after' or is it an improbable dream?As divorce rates rise and people change, develop and grow over time what is wrong with having a decade partner instead of a life partner. In the UK being convicted for life imprisonment represents 16 years*, which equates to eight years for good behaviour. Why not same for

Is sex a deal breaker?
Reading Moxie's post asking if sexual compatibility was a deal breaker got me thinking. I am reminded of a previous post where I said I would raise my standards and lower my expectations. With my standards higher, I have more space to manoeuver any potential compromise.I cannot imagine myself in a successful relationship without decent sex, I've tasted the near-perfect match mentally, emotionally and physically more than once. That said, I am a realist, I have truly loved and I felt that love again withou