All is contingent and not arbitrary
I believe that we all came into this world with a mission, a purpose for which we are given tools, more dominant potentials (qualities) to be able to fulfill this objective. More dominant in the sense that we can be anything we want to be, do anything we want to do but just like our DNA has all the blueprint to be everything but only a part of this potential stands out, is in this life switched on. These switched on potentials are there to be activated, nourished and developed so that the master plan can be executed. These “potentialights” are part of the non-arbitrary way of life? Therefore although things seem to happen accidentally there is a predetermined possibility / probabil