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I Can't Complain Any More Than · 2M ago

Meaning

I never asked “why me”.  I always thought “better me”. Today is one of those days that reinforces that. We have a good friend whose girlfriend has been diagnosed with breast cancer.  I’ve never met her.  But through him I am able to help.  I can offer advice.  Help for nausea.  Advice on hair loss.
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I Can't Complain Any More Than · 2M ago

I never asked “why me”.  I always

I never asked “why me”.  I always thought “better me”. Today is one of those days that reinforces that. We have a good friend whose girlfriend has been diagnosed with breast cancer.  I’ve never met her.  But through him I am able to help.  I can offer advice.  Help for nausea.  Advice on hair loss.
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I Can't Complain Any More Than · 3M ago

Feeling Like the Cheese…

I often compare my cancer experience to a game of Farmer In The Dell.  Only in this version it’s Cancer that takes a wife… and a child… and a nurse.  And I, well, I am the Cheese.  And I stand alone here in my survivorship. That’s how it feels, anyway… Ironically, at the last appointment, [...]
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I Can't Complain Any More Than · 4M ago

The “C” Word

In October 2011 I reached the 5 year mark.  Cancer-free for five fabulous years!  They certainly weren’t five worry-free years, by a long shot!  Early last year my blood work started showing some changes.  My Alkaline phosphatase levels were fluctuating.  They would go higher than normal, at my next
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I Can't Complain Any More Than · 7M ago

Milestones

I’m here today to share some great news.  Last week I hit my 5 Year Survivor mark!  What a milestone!  I do feel blessed to be here, in this place, standing in the sunlight of cancer-freedom!  The odds were against me being here.  Inflammatory Breast Cancer (IBC) is not a kind and gentle cancer.  Th
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I Can't Complain Any More Than · 1Y ago

What Blindness Cannot Do.

We’ve all seen this touching poem written by an unknown cancer patient. WHAT CANCER CAN’T DO It cannot cripple love, it cannot shatter hope It cannot corrode faith, it cannot eat away peace It cannot destroy confidence, it cannot kill friendship It cannot shut out the memories, it cannot silence cou
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I Can't Complain Any More Than · 1Y ago

Wanted: Your Parental Two Cents

Help!  This is a touchy subject.  I wouldn’t be broaching the subject if I wasn’t at my wit’s end.  The whole thing embarrasses me… and Daddy-O.  Apparently, though, it doesn’t embarrass the one person it should!  Frankly, I just do not know what to do about my oldest son. He steals.  He takes litt
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I Can't Complain Any More Than · 1Y ago

Advocacy and lymphedema sleeves

Yesterday, Susan made a big announcement.  She is one of my cancer sisters, founder and co-contributor at Mothers with Cancer, blogger at Toddler Planet  and Women in Planetary Science and friend.  She is also an astonishing advocate for, well, everyone.  Susan has  lymphedema in her arm as a result
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I Can't Complain Any More Than · 1Y ago

What I worry about…

Hoo boy!  Today’s suggested topic from The Daily Post is “Are you stressed out?” Well, really… who isn’t stressed out these days?  If you’re not unemployed or under-employed or upside down in your house or already lost it you’re in the minority.  It seems like everyone is broke.  There are furloughs
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