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It's Not ME, it's YOU · 1Y ago

New Blogging Adventure

It has been brought to my attention recently that I haven’t blogged since 2002 (slight exaggeration, though it has been a loooong time).  I do apologize for that, but it seems that life has gotten in the way.  There have been many new and exciting developments, but probably the most exciting one so
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It's Not ME, it's YOU · 2Y ago

A New Year, A Split-aversary, and a Year in Review

Wow.  I am blown away that another year has come and gone.  2009 kicked my ass, both in a good way, and a less-than-good way.  Not bad, per se, but if you have been reading, you know that it hasn’t been a walk in the park by any means.  I am glad to see 2009 [...]
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It's Not ME, it's YOU · 2Y ago

Thanks for stopping by!

Wow!!  I am so excited to see that this blog has received nearly 4,100 hits in the last year!  That is fantastic!  Thank you so much for your continued readership, support, and acceptance of my twisted sense of humor and need to laugh at myself. I have also noticed that people have been adding me [.
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It's Not ME, it's YOU · 2Y ago

Insanity

So, I heard this one time that the definition of Insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different outcome.  That is, apparently, what I am likely to do.  Every. Stinkin’. Time.  I run to what I know… what I always did… regardless of how it makes me feel. Let me [...]
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It's Not ME, it's YOU · 2Y ago

Facelift for the Blog

Well, it has been 17 days since the divorce was finalized.  It has been extremely liberating.  I have spent a lot of time with friends and family.  On the downside… still getting texts from the ex.  That should be a whole different blog.  Ugh.  I am planning to change my number this week.  Pfft. So…
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It's Not ME, it's YOU · 2Y ago

Changing Your Life in 61 Easy Days!

I know… I know… It’s been a while since I have posted anything.  No, I didn’t go back.  No, I didn’t abandon the blog and spiral down into the abyss of depression eating ice cream for days.  I gave up ice cream this summer.  And the depression, well, that was no worse than usual. What [...]
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It's Not ME, it's YOU · 2Y ago

Dear Nutcase…

Dear Psychotic-Soon-to-be-ex-husband, Yeah… that attempt you are making at blocking your number when calling me 30 times a day and at all hours of the night???  Not working.  I’m still not answering the phone.  I don’t answer the phone for ANY blocked number… especially at 2:30 am.  Sorry things are
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It's Not ME, it's YOU · 2Y ago

Thanks, Darryl

I know… two posts in one day?  Unheard of! Now that I am taking action, you will probably be hearing a lot more from me.  Sorry.  heh So… I have been meaning to split up our phone service (cell) for a while, but it always seems like a hassle.  Steve has been harassing me to [...]
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It's Not ME, it's YOU · 2Y ago

Whiplash

Ok kiddies… we are coming down to the wire.  Only 16 more days until the lease expires.  I am packing up and moving as much as I can this weekend.  I am SO over this.  I always thought to myself, “If I ever move out, I am filing for divorce right away and we will [...]
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It's Not ME, it's YOU · 2Y ago

Cue Choir of Angels

It’s amazing how things can change with a single conversation.  Calm down… I have not lost my mind and gone back to my marriage [shudder].  Let me back up a minute… Since the separation began in January, my husband has spent countless hours telling me that he didn’t have anywhere to go once our leas
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