How to Survive the Holidays
Yes the holidays are here!! The holiday music is everywhere. My neighbors have their lights up already. My family is passing around lists on who is bringing what to eat. The holidays are here! It is so easy to get out of control during this time so, here is how I survive the holidays. 1. Holiday cards - I know a lot of people who have HUGE lists of people they send cards to each year. I use to be one of those people. It became so much work to sit down and address all these cards and send them out. I started dreading even thinking about it and I knew it had to stop. I now enjoy sending cards because I make a simple list of the people I want t

What I am Thankful for
After Thanksgiving is a great time to reflect on what you are thankful for. We should be doing this all the time but hell this time is better than never, right? This year, I am reflecting on the people in my life and what life lesson I am thankful for that I learned from them. Justin - I learned to be loved. It is very easy to love others and be disappointed and hurt by them as well. I always was willing to give love openly and never withheld my love from anyone. But, I did protect myself from being loved. It was safer for me to give all I had but never let people in. I protected myself from the love of others. I learned it is great to give love but it is o

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Adam Lambert: Being Who He Is
By now most people have seen his performance on AMA. I am not a huge Adam fan but I did see the performance and I enjoyed it. It was a boring show and he really did what his song was all about, he entertained us. I do not mind any shock or even a raunchy performance. I felt it matched his song well and he did a great job. It was FUN! I was amazed by the press he got about his kiss with his straight keyboard player. All the comments were about his gay actions on stage but no one mentioned the girl who gave him a lap dance and he grabbed her crotch as well as the females on stage that also grabbed Adam’s crotch. The focus was on the anything gay he did. I loved his resp

Maybe This Time…
I took my mother to see Cabaret last week. Neither of us had ever seen the musical. During the show, Sally sings “Maybe This Time.” She is hoping this time she might win. The song has the lyric…”Maybe this time, I’ll be lucky” For those who know the show or haven’t seen it. Sally doesn’t get what she was singing about. Not because she couldn’t have it, but because she chooses not to have it. Luck had nothing to do with her having the life she wanted. It was all about the choices she makes that determines the life she would have. Sure it was scary, hard, and not comfortable but she could have made the choice to go