Not Your Mother's Playground
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Not Your Mother's Playground |
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http://notourmothersplayground.com |
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English |
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open marriage, polyamory, sexuality |
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This blog is written for the 21st century modern man or woman. Sure, there are lots of people of all walks of life in open relationships, but one thing I have found from experience is that there aren’t that many resources for folks like me, and maybe like you. Regular folks, who may or may not be in a relationship, but who might not participate in drum circles; cuddle fests or other (considered) hippy activities, at least not all the time anyways. Folks who might work office jobs. Go home to their cats, their kids, or their primary partners. Folks who might sometimes like going to IKEA, and Home Depot. Hang out with their “normal” friends. Folks who can relate to more than one type of person in social situations. Folks like me. And maybe folks like you.
This blog, and it’s accompanying book are not intended to be a bash on anyone who might identify a little more with a non-traditional view of the world. Certainly if you are in, or considering, an open relationship or customized fidelity, chances are your views are just a tad non-traditional to start with. This blog is for those of us who just might not list renaissance fares, clothing optional triad relationships, and LARPing as our favorite activities when filling in our Facebook profiles. This isn’t to say that this book is meant for a limited audience, more specifically it’s meant for a larger percentage of society than many other books on the same subject.
Society today appears to be trying slowly to get over its qualms with sex and gender politics, while at the same time it embraces raunch culture while telling kids not to take part in the activities that said culture promotes. For twenty years, the news about sex has all been bad. How can we then, as responsible adults even begin to consider alternative views to love, sex and relating with others?
By recognizing that we, and not society, are in control of our brains, hearts and bodies. By breaking down the social conditioning that has caused so much infidelity, heartache and divorce for those around us. By understanding that we are valued, respected, loved and thought of as all kinds of awesome, even if our partners may enjoy the company of another occasionally.
I invite you into my ongoing journey. To experience the ups and downs that have helped me grow and become who I am today, and will continue to change and challenge who I am tomorrow. |
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