What I'm not talking about.

The things people say to me.

Sex Advice for the sexy.

On Privilege.
Just so we all know where I am coming from a quick list about your hostess:ShannonBlackCisgendered woman who identifies as a womanBisexual living more in a queer universe.PoorUninterested in higher education. Graduated high school.Self taught on lots of things. I like books.Mid level fat. Right around the actual size of an average American ladytype.So there we have it.I'm not going to link to people because I a.)don't have a beef with anyone and b.)just don't feel like it.So lately in the Fatosphere (yet again) there

Friday of Random...er Sunday of random.
First things first, if you're feeling delicate I suggest skipping my next few sentences.I have to say that the song in the video below reminded me that I would like to screw Billy Idol red white and blue. That man is a hot piece of ass.There is no visual for this video but the audio, and yes. I say again Billy Idol is a Hot Piece of Ass.Ahem. Moving along.Actually wait a sec while I am lusting can I just say that OMG Skin+Jojon from Sevendust=Tasty mother fucking deliciousness of epic hot black folks proportions.I've been having yet another week of bullshit sleep and I swear people, after having this issue for so many y

Indeed I do.
I'm not going to discuss the current fuss in the fatosphere because you know what? As I said yesterday I've been through it in this neighborhood before and I'm really just not in the mood today. Maybe tomorrow.Rather I want to talk about some newish feelings I have about current feminism.Now for you new folks I (as of what sometime last year?) no longer identify as a feminist. The last time I discussed it in depth was here.For today keep this in mind. I am speaking to my own experiences here. These are my impressions and my feelings so if you want to

The Amoral Fatty.
a⋅mor⋅al–adjective1. not involving questions of right or wrong; without moral quality; neither moral nor immoral.For the purposes of this entry I'm using amoral with this usage. Not the one that indicates some nefarious things.The issue of the "Good" Fatty vs the "Bad" Fatty has reared up in the Fatosphere yet again. I've been around for it many times and my opinion hasn't changed.I do not believe that it behooves fat people (or people in general for that matter) to buy into the idea that there are somehow more virtuous among us fatties.Now the stereotypical "Good" fatty is about as follows:

And we're back.
No, I'm not entirely out of the bad brain place fog but I'm getting there.And let me say AGAIN how much I love you guys. You really have no idea how much it means to me that there are those of you who get it and everything. I have words but thank you.I have to keep reminding myself that I AM worth the effort and yes sometimes the cost. It's amazing how hard of a thing that is.Moving along. I believe I saw this first via TR and um, okay if fat people are really warmer why the FUCK am I half frozen 80% of the time?To be honest I refus