What I'm not talking about.

The things people say to me.

Sex Advice for the sexy.

Hustlin' Hustlin'
Sexy advice tomorrow because I have two awesome questions that are along the same theme and I need to do some research before answering the second.Lately I've had a burning desire to make more things.More things.I want to make gothy b affordable accessories. Hair toys and things that aren't amazingly overpriced.I want to make some fattie friendly stuff.I want to make stuff that's cheap but not so cheap that the shit falls apart after you wear it once. I don't want to make cheap shit that pulls hair.Generally speaking the big hold up at this point involves several things. A.) Financially it's a rough summer.

And one more time.
Sexytimes advice this week swearsies my friends.Posting is indeed light, I'm doing some weird brain thing right now where my thoughts are a little too far into other writing and whatnot. I'm working on balancing things out.In other news over the weekend while I wasn't really near my computer much I got some amusing troll messages.One message alerted me to the fact that the audacity of having a paypal button I am in effect begging and stealing from people. Clearly this person knows from their learnings that I make vast amounts of money blogging and it's a terrible thing.Uh huh.For the record as far as "profit" goes I have probably m

NO U!
I know posting has been light. Mainly because I've been in other writing overdrive.I've also been very in my head in a thinky sort of manner.I realized something recently as I had to slow my pace walking up a bit of an incline due to pain in my knee areas that I have unconsciously been pushing my limits in ways that are not good for me.I have a problem with this.I have had this similar kind of problem since I was a teenager.It's a huge challenge for me to separate what is healthy and normal and what could be pathological and potentially dangerous when it comes to exercise.I forget how to listen carefully to

Twitter lessons.
So I dig Twitter. Find me here and warning if you think I'm random here 140 characters seems to unleash the random beast. For whatever reason I have a shit ton of followers and recently a lot of weightloss targeted marketing folks following me.Um...Here again I learn the lesson about keywords rather than you know reading.Are these "miracle weightloss" and "I have the KEY to your healthy life" folks actually reading me and thinking, oh she'll buy it. She's fat she must want to lose weight.Oh me.Most of the time I just kinda shake my head.

Dieting, food and weighty thoughts.
No matter where fat, food and diet are mentioned there are a group of common refrains and angry chants that follow.There are the standard assumptions about bodies that do not conform to an average visual ideal of health, generally those visuals are fat people.I read some of the comments from Marianne and Kate's posts at Powell's and elsewhere (forgive my non linking ass I'm tired) and there are of course the usual.YOU CAN'T BE HEALTHY OMG OMGOMGOMGOMGOMG etc.Now I've made the point time and again that the visual of a human beings body is not necessarily indicative of their health.Today I want to know a few things that I