relationshipsandsexuality

I hear it from men, and I especially hear it from their disappointed partners.  ”If only it would last.” Premature ejaculation (PE) is very, very common. About a third of all men (and their partners, sadly) are plagued by this problem. The good news is that for most men PE is fixable. It may take [.

We may never know if indeed it was a first. At the White House on Tuesday the president awarded the Presidential Medal of Freedom, the nation’s highest civilian honor, to an esteemed American and de facto polygamist. His name is Warren Buffett. In case you didn’t know, for more than a half-century,

So few of us in the United States know much about Canada.  Mention “Bountiful” and very few think about a town in British Columbia. Fewer still are aware that there is a case, commonly referred to as the Bountiful Case, presently before the BC Supreme Court, that challenges the law that limits a “co

Finally, there is a new, serious, not pop psychology advance in the understanding of how we connect with one another. I’m not taken with fads. This really is big stuff. It’s based on attachment theory, that psychoanalytically inspired work of John Bowlby. A couple of folks have broken it down, appli

It used to be that “the inability to perform” drove many men to withdraw from — or rendered them unable to enter and successfully sustain — a sexual relationship. When getting a good erection became less and less likely and over time proved increasingly impossible, that fundamental, pleasurable part

We tend to see — or, more often, “feel” — the world around us from the vantage point of individual experience, through our own narrow-focus lens of pain and pleasure. Holiday times are especially hard for many people.  We all know this. But when they’re hard for you, it seems all you can see is [...

“If only I had a hot lover,” she said to me. If only everyone had a hot lover, I thought.  But that wouldn’t solve this woman’s problem, or most people’s problems.  It sounded good though. When people come to me they nearly always identify a “problem” that is rarely the real problem. Most often it’s

If you want to know what a great sex life is like, you should ask the real experts – people who believe they are having really great sex. That’s the revolutionary but commonsense assumption behind research conducted by Peggy Kleinplatz, PhD, and her colleagues at Ottawa University. They interviewed