He Said I Scared Him Away

Thing On My Mind
I've been a long time i've been here - & blogville in general for that matter - that i suppose say una don forget abt me entirely. Forgive me una o, for d disappearance wey i don do & d ones wey i go still dey do.So anyways, i've got a couple of things on my mind. And since blogville is the place where i unburden myself, i might as well just pour my heart out.This is, i know nollywood is not a reflection of reality, but by jove some of the misinformation they pass across! Let's take for instance, this gets repeated over and over again: a man struggling to put food on his family's table (maybe drinking away a sizeable chunk of whatever money he man

HIM DON SEE YOU FINISH!!!!!!!!!
I have this friend, who is having a great relationship with this guy. She doesn't talk about him a lot, but when she does you could tell that the dude is really into her. They go to work/church together, he buys her fresh flowers, sends her sweet love notes at work, goes on vacation with her (4 oyibo land too) etc. Every time i hear these tales, i go 'Sweet!! But, when is he marrying you?' Am sorry, I just can't help myself.

How To Handle That Cheating Bastard
A lot has been said and written about men and their cheating ways. In fact, nearly every single woman I know has had an experience or the other with discovering that the man who had been coming to her in the perfect guise of being ‘serious’, to be either recently engaged, on the verge of getting married, newly married, or married with kids. Seeing that the occurrence of this is much higher than divorces, as least speaking for naija folks, it appears that those men has found ways to separate what they do with other women from their recognised liaisons. I.e. their wives/fiancés are completely unaware of their men’s extracurricular activities. Or, if you’d go with Pamela Stitch’s fa