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Sex and the Southern Belle · 3M ago

Up in Smoke

It is half-way through October. The landscape is changing. Fall is right around the corner...
Sex and the Southern Belle · 3M ago

Not Even 2 and Microagressions

*sigh*I am always reluctant to share stories about my kid at work. I do not want to be one of those parents whose posts are ALWAYS about their kids. But what I experienced last week at work ...
Sex and the Southern Belle · 3M ago

Desperate Times, Drastic Measures!

Hey Folks!I know.. I have skipped a couple of weeks already! BUT in my defense, having a sick toddler will wear you out... and family really is important.That being said... I've gone through...
Sex and the Southern Belle · 3M ago

Tourist in your Own State(Of Marriage)

*I was on vacay so..... there was a pause to the blog last week*My husband and I took a mi...
Sex and the Southern Belle · 3M ago

You Too Old to be #Insecure

Let's talk about one of my fav new shows... Insecure! And why I better not ever see anyone...
Sex and the Southern Belle · 3M ago

The Intersection

I am at the intersection of "Fuck it All" and "Think This Thing Through"...Oh btw.. this b...
Sex and the Southern Belle · 3M ago

Randomness: Friday

What do you talk about when you're out of words? I committed to write once a week on this blog. And I have done so faithfully since recommitting myself. But what do I write about when words ...
Sex and the Southern Belle · 3M ago

I Had Hope For Other Hair: Confessions in Black Motherhood

I had hoped for other hair...(My Little One Reading a Book Before Bed)... for my daughter.No, I didn't want her to have "good hair"... hair that ebbed and flowed close to the weight of Whiteness. I didn't want that for her.  I didn't want her to have...
Sex and the Southern Belle · 3M ago

Would I Want To Fuck Me?:Sex. Bodies and Motherhood

I was on my last few repetitions of the row machine at the gym. I looked over at the older woman a few ways down, sweating profusely on the treadmill, and a very svelte white girl doing chin dips. I just wanted to get through these last few rows and ...
Sex and the Southern Belle · 3M ago

Hello Stranger: My Evolution

I am in a variety of groups on Facebook. Some for fun. Most for shared interest. A few out of sheer boredomIn one of my groups, we were challenged to describe ourselves to a total stranger. ...