Tristan’s Sex Positive November Tour
Tristan Taormino, Photo Source Tristan Taormino is a rockstar of sex positivity, and a personal idol of mine.  I am hoping to be lucky enough to go hear her speak at the new Fascination in Scottsdale, AZ this Thursday, and finally meet her in person. Her book Opening Up is a brilliant look at the various types of non-monogamy, and her other boo

Holiday Giving Wishlist 2009
I did this first in 2007 and had great success.  I got some cool sci-fi and fantasys books from Candy Poses, a beautiful chain maile necklace from Lady Brett Ashley, a fan-freaking-tabulous day in New York City with Audacia Ray (and a stop to see Jamye Waxman!), and a fun trip to see Sweeney Todd on Christmas with my Jewish Queer sister from another mister, Butterscotch Cripple.  I did it last year, and while I go fewer things (includi

And we’re here…
We’re here. In Phoenix. And while things with Q and I are still good (despite a couple of miscommunications, which have since been resolved), everything else has fallen apart.   The cats are getting on fairly well, but Jasper decided to “mark his territory” all over my nice, synthetic down Eddie Bauer comforter…which now needs to be dry cleaned. My cell phone charger broke en transit…right before what was supposed to be my interview, making me have to buy another $30 one last minute. My MacBook charger decided to start sparking, making me have to order another one. For $45.  No computer = no possibility of freelance work, which

Sex Toy Review: Liberator Silk Binding Sash
Liberator was kind enough to send me a smaller item to review this time…you know, until Q and I move in together and have more room for the items I’m dying for, like the Esse or the Buckaroo (hint hint, nudge nudge). What did I get? A set of

New Outfit HNT
I got this sassy new dress a few weeks ago.  It was on sale, and fit perfectly.  I debuted it at Spanktrum, but how perfect is it for teaching sexuality ed classes, putting on toy parties, and role play. I mean, come on! It’s like librarian/secretary/professor outfit, and Q’s eyes were close to falling out of her head the first time she saw me. The shoes, on the other hand, are not so perfect for my knees, and the blister on my pinky toe. T