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Surfacing After Silence · 2W ago

Dangers of praising someone for losing weight

Dangers of praising someone for losing weightAn awesome article on the dangers of praising someone for losing weight: 
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Surfacing After Silence · 3W ago

Another Absence and The Same Depression

It’s been over a month since my previous post again.  I swear, I’ve thought about writing.  But as powerful as those thoughts were, they never translated into action and my fingers never typed up another entry.  I wish I could say that the depression is better, that I’ve turned a corner, that I’m ba
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Surfacing After Silence · 2M ago

Absence, answers, and the addicting online social networks

I realize that I haven’t posted a new blog in a month-and-a-half.  Actually, I realized that I hadn’t posted anything awhile ago, but everything time I tried writing an entry, I stared at the blank screen and waited for words to come up.  And waited.  And waited.  And would stare at the blank screen
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Surfacing After Silence · 3M ago

Sprouting

Today I had to drive two hours to St Louis for a routine cardiology appointment that took a grand total of 25 minutes.  Then I got back in  my car and drove two hours home. Lately, however, on Formspring, I’ve noticed a trend that I used to succumb to as well:  the trend of downplaying [...]
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Surfacing After Silence · 3M ago

electroconvulsive shock therapy

So my previous entry contained more information about my current depressive episode and what I am doing to help kick its ass.  I mentioned ECT, and have gotten a lot of questions about it–so I decided to devote an entry to ECT.  Maybe dispel a couple of myths and incorrect assumptions. ECT=Electroco
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Surfacing After Silence · 4M ago

more along the depressed honesty lane . . .

So not much has changed since my last entry.  I wish I could say that things are great and my job is wonderful and life is full of roses.  Actually, I can say that my job is wonderful.  I mean, I knew I liked my job and I enjoy working there and I love teaching [...]
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Surfacing After Silence · 4M ago

*All* You Have To Do Is Smile

I’m finally getting around to posting a new blog.  I can thank the snow plows that went by my house at 5:30 for what is now maybe one centimeter of snow.  My area is in a Winter Weather Advisory until 6 pm for what is expected to be a grand accumulation of 1-2 inches.  Having [...]
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Surfacing After Silence · 9M ago

What Friends Do: An Open Letter

Dear Friend Who is Hurting, I received a comment letting me know that my advice and suggestions were unwanted, with a comment that you need to figure things out on your own.  I’m sorry, but I cannot follow through with that request, not if you are one of my friends. I hate to see you [...]
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Surfacing After Silence · 9M ago

war on “I hate my body”

I have a group of friends on Facebook who are struggling with an eating disorder.  These individuals range from just starting to consider recovery as an option to fully recovered.  So, I’m used to seeing the “I hate my body!!!!!!!!” status update–number of exclamation points varies . But I’m seeing
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Surfacing After Silence · 9M ago

thin does not equal happy

We live in a diet-obsessed world, where if you mention you are on a diet, you are likely to be met with “good for you!” comments.  Not comments that express concern about your overall health and happiness, neither of which tend to last very long with obsessive dieting. And now we have a new kids [..
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