You know you're infertile when...
From the "Finding a Resolution for Infertility" on the Resolve online support community:You know you're infertile when...You use and understand more acronyms than the government space program.You know that cycling has nothing to do with a bike.You list your IF stats like a pro baseball player.You hate at least one person that's pregnant.You have long since learned to check your pride at the door

Watch the book trailer for Secret Seductions.
The book trailer for Secret Seductions is online! Take a look.Many thanks to Ben Hess of Bay Area Pictures for the great work!

How I became a sex writer.
On Saturday, I read a pared-down version of my essay "Following Anais, or How I Became a Sex Writer," as part of LitCrawl, which is the climax of San Francisco's LitQuake literary festival. I read in an alley. Really. With the obligatory drunk crazy person and everything. Evan Carp from the San Francisco Examiner posted an article, here.Here's the video. We only had 7 minutes, so I'm reading

And the second giveaway winner is...
...is Miah! She wins the bottle of FertilAid for Women from FairHaven Health from my August 12 giveaway. I selected her name totally randomly using--what else--a website called Random.org.Sorry it's taken me so long to announce the winners. In addition to having to put my cat to sleep last month, work has been nuts, I've had health problems, and well, life has been a bit challenging. And my dear

I'm in the October issue of Cosmo.
...And it's one issue of Cosmo you can share with your man, because it has Megan Fox on the cover, and from what I understand, guys think she's hot or something. In the article, she claims to be really insecure. Yeah, whatever.But Megan's not important right now. (Really.) See that headline on the cover that says "Bad Girl Sex"? Yeah, that's the article I was interviewed for. It starts on page