IS IT EVER ACCEPTABLE TO CHEAT ON YOUR MATE?
One of my favorite movies is currently playing on AMC- Bridges of Madison County (1995). It stars Meryl Streep and Robert Redford. Streep plays a married mother with three children whose family leaves town for a 5-day period to attend a fair. Robert Redford comes into town to shoot a covered bridge for Life Magazine. The two meet, fall in love and Streep has the difficult choice of remaining in her

HE MUST HAVE SOMETHING TO HIDE … OR MAYBE HE DOESN’T
  Men by nature have a cautious spirit when it comes to allowing a woman into the most intimate details of our lives. Many of us have been burned in the past by crazy stalking b****** or bad divorces that cause us to really take our time in opening our world up. As a woman, you may say “well I told you my life story within the first two days of dating now it’s your turn”. No, it doesn’t work like that. As men we have been groomed by our fathers, uncles, and other men we respect to always be careful with the amount of information you give a woman because at anytime if that woman feels scorned you have hell to pay. Some men even take this phil

WHY WOULD A MAN DATE A WOMAN WHOM HE HAS NO INTENTION OF MARRYING?
This question appeared on my friend’s Facebook page about a month ago. My immediate thought was if I knew of anyone who was currently doing this..and the answer was yes. Then I asked myself if I had ever done this and the answer was a resounding yes. There are two reasons why this occurs. We will explore the first reason today. Reason number 1…We view dating differently. Men seem to be the greatest culprits of this injustice. N

WE ARE BROWN MEN AND WE ARE SPECIAL
Yesterday was one of the most rewarding days for me as a parent. It started off with me participating in All Pro Dad breakfast at my 8 year old’s school. It is a national program that promotes positive interaction of men with their children. My son and I participated in various activities geared towards dialogue and bonding between us. I reminded my son that as long as I have breath in my body that I will ALWAYS be his greatest supporter. He smiled and said I know. Mission accomplished. Next I headed out to find birthday party hats for my youngest son’s party at his daycare. He was turning 3 and his mom wanted to do cupcakes and ice cream…cool. When I walked i

SHE CAME TO THE DOOR IN A THONG AND HEELS … IF YOU KNEW WHAT I KNOW YOU WOULD TOO
I wrote a post earlier this week about my fantasy woman LisaRaye and was alarmed at the negative reaction from my female readers. Everything from “she’s a gold digger” to “she is not intelligent.” From a fantasy standpoint, who even cares if she can read, the sister is sexy. One woman alluded to the fact that she looked like a stripper and why would any decent man desire her at all. One thing that my female readers need to understand is that men are visual and anything you can do to visually stimulate him. You should. I once dated a woman who invited me over for an uneventful night of television watching. Upon my arrival, the door slight