The Sexuality Coach

No less than Cecil B. DeMille or Martin Scorcese, you are in charge of the movie called “Your Life”. Your parents were the original producers, but now you’re the boss. You are in charge of contract negotiations, script rewrites, casting, and directing. Here are some techniques for resolving conflict

Or, What did I inherit along the way that makes me special? (or, what might I still be doing that doesn’t work for me, and that I have the power to change right now?) Are you still doing stuff that’s been obsolete for years, but it’s bone-deep in your Unconscious? I don’t mean just prewashing [...]

When we were all just starting out, I had a friend who moved every year from one wonderful huge old flat to another in an artistic, shabby-but-genteel part of town. High ceilings, space heaters, antiquated kitchens, tiny bathrooms, two closets, infinite charm. She did two things I remember with admi

CELEBRATE YOUR STYLE! © Roz Van Meter I’m one of those people with a short attention span. I used to think it was shallow or restless of me to fly from blossom to blossom like a butterfly, until I remembered that such a judgment came from others, long ago. Variety is simply what I most [...]

Finding delight in everyday moments is a vital aspect of living life to the fullest. Don't hesitate to make a new friend - they could be the person you've been looking for!

Have you said, or even thought, that sex should be a No Fault Zone? Roz suggests: No blames, no grades, no sighs of wistful longing, no passive-aggressive feedback. Though no two sexual encounters are exactly alike, they all need to be pressure-free. SEX IS FOR FUN AND LOVE! not for ringing the bell

© Roz Van Meter, 2002, 2009 To me, starting a new year is like opening the door to a lovely floating stairway.  All I have to do is point it toward where I really, REALLY want to go, and then just take one step at a time till I get there. Most of us carry [...]

© Roz Van Meter, 2002, 2009 You have been drawing your Life Map since you were very young. Part of its structure is genetic, your neurological inheritance. Most of it, though, you picked up through your perceptions and experiences, through what you saw around you, how you interpreted it, which learn

© Roz Van Meter, 2002, 2009 I’m a passionate proponent of romance, which simply means loving attention and affection. Today I urge you to romance yourself. Indulge. Do something special, either with a beloved, a good friend, or just on your own.  Get to a driving range, meet pals for pool and beer.

© Roz Van Meter, 2002, 2009 When you were a toddler (great word!) you found delight in almost everything. Your job was to learn about this world you’d been plunked down into, and you were overjoyed with experimentation. You loved to splat your hands in the dog’s water bowl, check out stuff with your