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To Love, Honor and Vacuum · 1d ago

A Recipe for a Romantic Evening–with Natural Aphrodisiacs

You can plan a sexy evening with your husband–naturally! We’re in the middle of our Sizzling Summer Sex Series, where we talk about how to make sex sizzle in your marriage. And this week we’ve been focusing on our bodies–how to nourish them, understa...
To Love, Honor and Vacuum · 2d ago

A Fun Way to Get Up Close and Personal!

Is there a way to make getting “up close and personal” with your lady parts more attractive to your husband–and less intimidating for you? I hold these truths to be self-evident: We all want great sex. For most women, intercourse alone does not provi...
To Love, Honor and Vacuum · 3d ago

It’s Not Supposed to Smell Like Flowers: Vaginal Care 101

Do you sometimes wonder if everything is smelling alright “down there”?  You’re not alone. Because of what we write about on this blog, we get many emails similar to this one: Something I’ve never been able to find on your blog, or other Christian ma...
To Love, Honor and Vacuum · 4d ago

How to Nourish Your Body–So Sex Works Great!

Do you treat food as a key tool in your sex life? A few years ago I watched the movie Bridget Jones’ Diary and read the book (neither were that spectacular, but everyone was talking about them so I wanted to see if they were good.) Other than the fun...
To Love, Honor and Vacuum · 4d ago

Reader Question: Is Masturbation Okay for Married Couples?

If you’re married, is it okay to masturbate? We’re starting week 3 of our Sizzling Summer Sex Series, and this week we’ll be looking at how to treat our bodies well to naturally boost our libidos and our enjoyment of sex. But before we do that, I wan...
To Love, Honor and Vacuum · 1W ago

How Having “His” Nights and “Her” Nights Can Help Your Sex Life

If you want to balance getting spicy in the bedroom with feeling like you totally respect and honour each other, “his” and “hers” nights are a great marriage tool! We’re closing up the second week of our Sizzling Summer Sex Series, and today I want t...
To Love, Honor and Vacuum · 1W ago

Why Does My Husband Not Care About My Sexual Desires?

What do you do if your husband isn’t interested in hearing your sexual fantasies or desires–let alone acting on them? We’re in Week 2 of our Sizzling Summer Sex Series! And this week we’ve been looking at how to spice things up and make sure sex does...
To Love, Honor and Vacuum · 1W ago

When Your Husband Wants Something in Bed You Think is Gross

What do you do if your husband wants you to do something in bed that you really hate? We’re in the middle of the Sizzling Summer Sex Series, and we’ve been talking this week about learning to be passionate, give up control, and help sex not be boring...
To Love, Honor and Vacuum · 1W ago

Top 10 Reasons Sex Gets Boring

Has sex gotten boring? Help is here! We’re in our second week of our Sizzling Summer Sex Series, and today I want to help those of you who feel like sex isn’t sizzling whatsoever. And that is sad–because sex is meant to be awesome! It’s explosive. It...
To Love, Honor and Vacuum · 1W ago

Want Great Sex? Then You Have to Let Go of Control!

If you want great sex, then you simply have to let yourself be vulnerable. It’s the start of our second week of the Sizzling Summer Sex Series, and last week one of the big things I was addressing was how to find real passion. The answer? We need vul...