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To Love, Honor and Vacuum · 1h ago

How Do You Draw Boundaries With the Silent Treatment?

Does your spouse use the silent treatment to punish you? We’ve been talking this week about how to feel emotionally connected. And one of the best ways to absolutely blow up emotional connection is to use the silent treatment in your marriage. A woma...
To Love, Honor and Vacuum · 23h ago

Top 10 Ways to Grow Your Sex Life in a Long Distance Marriage

How can you work on your sex life if you’re not together to practice? How do you work on your sex life long distance? I’ve had two women send me in questions like that recently. One woman writes: I just finished reading The Good Girl’s Guide. Althoug...
To Love, Honor and Vacuum · 2d ago

Reader Question: How Do I Deal with Post-Sex Blues?

How do you deal with the post-sex blues, or getting depressed right after sex? We’re supposed to feel euphoria after we have sex. Our bodies release oxytocin, the bonding hormone. We’re floo...
To Love, Honor and Vacuum · 5d ago

Can We Look at Song of Solomon with Clear Eyes?

I know we’re supposed to love Song of Solomon because it’s the Bible book about sex and all that. But has anyone else ever felt a little weird about it? I speak about sex and at marriage con...
To Love, Honor and Vacuum · 6d ago

Just a Personal Update–on Australia and More!

Hello, faithful readers! I thought I’d take today and tell you a bit about what’s going on...
To Love, Honor and Vacuum · 6d ago

Wifey Wednesday: When You Disagree on Parenting

What do you do when you when you and your spouse disagree when it comes to parenting? Lucy Rycroft from DesertMum is here sharing her thoughts and how she deals with this issue in her household! Parenting is tough. If you pop into our home unannounce...
To Love, Honor and Vacuum · 1W ago

When Are We Ready to Have Kids? And How Do We Decide?

How do you know when is the right time to have a baby? And when am I ready for a baby? Okay, excuse me for a second while I stop laughing. Honestly, I hope we all know that there is never re...
To Love, Honor and Vacuum · 1W ago

The Only Attitude Shift You Need: Be Intentional!

Do you ever find yourself frustrated with your life, and wondering how to make it better? And you think: if you just tried harder, you’d get more done. If you weren’t so lazy, the house woul...
To Love, Honor and Vacuum · 1W ago

Permission Not to Be a Perfect Mother

When it comes to being a perfect mother, don’t you feel like we all have these lists in our heads of what that would entail? And the list is likely pretty long and detailed! I think that’s because what’s held up as the “ideal” within the Christian wo...
To Love, Honor and Vacuum · 1W ago

Who Does What Housework? The Benefits of Specialization

How do you handle splitting up chores in your household? This week I’ve been talking about the Ultimate Homemaking Bundle, a collection of 129 online resources about homemaking, menu planning, organizing, time management, faith, and more, that’s avai...