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To Love, Honor and Vacuum · 21h ago

Let’s Bring Back Family Meals! Why Eating Together is Important

Probably the most iconic image of Thanksgiving is the big family dinner: That family meal ...
To Love, Honor and Vacuum · 1d ago

Thankfulness–Even When It’s Not Thanksgiving

Happy Thanksgiving to all my American readers! Although, come to think of it, my American readers aren’t likely to see this, since you’re all busy with Thanksgiving! So for all my fellow Can...
To Love, Honor and Vacuum · 2d ago

Wifey Wednesday: Thoughts on #MeToo

I can’t use #metoo. I have never been sexually harrassed at work. I have never been sexually assaulted. I was groped on public transportation several times while in Tunisia, and I have been flashed, but really nothing compared to what so many women h...
To Love, Honor and Vacuum · 3d ago

13 Dumb Things Smart People Believe About Marriage

Lots of people believe a lot of dumb things about marriage! Recently I asked on Facebook, “what are some dumb things people believe about marriage?”, and tons of you replied! (Thank you so much! It makes it much easier to write my posts when you all ...
To Love, Honor and Vacuum · 4d ago

Reader Question: Sex Just Doesn’t Feel Intimate to Me

Sex is supposed to be this wonderful, intimate thing that binds us together as a couple. But what do you do if sex doesn’t feel intimate to you? Every Monday I like to post a reader question...
To Love, Honor and Vacuum · 1w ago

Fight the Frump: Looking Put Together with Outfits

Are you ready to create outfits that work for you? We’ve been talking all week about how to fight the frump, covering hair, natural-looking makeup, and finding clothes that fit and flatter. Now we’re going to bring it all together by talking about th...
To Love, Honor and Vacuum · 1W ago

Fight the Frump: Finding Clothes that Fit and Flatter

It’s Fight the Frump week here at To Love, Honor and Vacuum, and today we’re going to talk about how to find items of clothing that fit and flatter you. We’ve talked about hair and makeup so far, because your face is where people look first. You want...
To Love, Honor and Vacuum · 1W ago

Fight the Frump: Mastering Natural Makeup

Let’s fight the frump today by talking about makeup! All week we’ve been talking about getting rid of that frumpy feeling by taking care of our appearance and showing that we respect ourselves. It’s not about being a fashion model or having a certain...
To Love, Honor and Vacuum · 1W ago

Fight the Frump: A Good Haircut Makes a Huge Difference!

We’re in the early part of our Fight the Frump week! And for this edition, I want to talk about hair. But first, let’s go back to some basic principles. Fighting the frump is NOT about vanity and not about living up to some magazine cover. Fighting t...
To Love, Honor and Vacuum · 1W ago

Fight the Frump: Let’s Get Dressed!

Do you feel frumpy? Look, no one has to live up to society’s standard of beauty. No one needs to be a size 4. But what I’m talking about has nothing to do with your figure and everything to do with the amount of effort we decide to put into our appea...