Why men dont listen and women cant read map - Allan and Barbara Pease
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| Blog Name: | Why men dont listen and women cant read map - Allan and Barbara Pease |
| Url: | http://www.360.yahoo.com |
| Language: | English |
| Topics: | Thoughts, attitudes, emotions |
| Description: | A man's brain is organised to evaluate and understand objects, their relationship to other objects, spatial relevance, how it all works and solutions to problems. His brain is programmed for a "How do I fix it?" response to life. Men use this "fix it" criterion in their approach to almost everything they do. One woman told that she wanted her husband to show a more loving attitude towards her - so he mowed the lawn. He saw this as an expression of his love. When she said she still wasn't happy, he painted the kitchen. And when this didnt work, he offered to take her to the football. When a woman is upset she will talk emotionally to her friends, but an upset man will rebuild a motor or fix a leaking tap. "To prove his love for her, he climbed the highest mountain, swam the deepest ocean, and crossed the widest desert. But she left him - he was never home" While women fantasise about love and romance, men fantasise about fast cars, bigger computers, boats and motorcycles. All these are things they can use and all are related to spatial ability and "doing something". **** A man's biological urge is to provide for a woman and her appreciation of his efforts confirm his success. IF she is happy, he feels fulfilled. If she's not happy he feels that he is a failure because he believes he cant provide enough. Men constantly say to their friends "I can never make her happy" and this can be sufficient motivation for a man to leave a relationship for another woman who seems happy with what he can provide. "A woman leaves a man not because she is unhappy with what he can provide, but because she is emotionally unfulfilled." She wants love, romance and conversation. He needs to be told by a woman that he is successful at what he does and what he can provide is fine. But a man needs to be romantic and, most of all, listen when a woman talks, without offering solutions. |
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